the art of being shallow

I love sex far more than I love love. I love sex with men, and women, and in as many different positions as possible. Variety is the spice of both life, and fucking. But one thing I always like when I'm having sex is full (and deep) penetration. So this post from the Lovehoney blog surprised me, somewhat.

News flash: not all women love to be fucked by a jackhammer penis, and men are slowly begining to learn that shallow thrusting is way sexier than the vaginal equivalent of deep throat...

The highest concentration of nerve endings in your vagina are actually near the opening, so it makes sense that the majority of your lover's efforts should be concentrated on this area.

With this in mind, shallow penetration is the way forward. By only slipping his penis in and out of the opening of your vagina (and not delving all the way in), your lover will stimulate a truck-load more nerve endings, making you a lot more tingly from tip to toe!

It's also good news for your bloke, since shallow thrusting means constant stimulation to the head of your man's penis and frenulum, both of which get squeezed by your vaginal muscles located near your vaginal opening.

Maybe some girls do like sex this way. I like it too... but only as a tease before the real fucking begins. If a guy only shagged me in a shallow way, I wouldn't contact him again for a re-run. I would (probably) think he was scared of vaginal walls, or something.
We have already covered my love of cock, but I also love the feel of it inside me. Banging against my cervix. Stretching me. Filling me up. The lovely ladies at Lovehoney may be right in saying that the highest concentration of nerve endings are near the opening (and when I'm playing with myself, using fingers only, I do spend some time on the "opening"), but the highest concentration of raging lust comes from being fucked. Hard, and deep. That's what vaginas are there for, for fucksake...!