people are people
Despite my issues with trust (who doesn't have issues with trust?), and despite the general consensus being that I'm a cynical old pessimist, I always hope for the best in people. I always hope that they won't let me down, and I always hope something good will come of any relationship I get myself tied up in. Whether that something good is a shag, a friendship, a love affair, whatever. I hope people are going to be every bit as good as I want them to be.
And then I get crushed by disappointment. I think I'm so busy being hopeful that I either can't see the reality of the situation, or I ignore it. Because when the reality finally does hit me, it hits me really fucking hard. And I've had enough of it.
So can everyone just stop being a cunt, please? Ta.
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Thinking of you hun, hope you are OK.
Him
x
"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.
The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration.
You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."
Oh, hello DD ;)
(what the fuck does DD stand for though?!)
This isn't about 'blame', or guilt. It's about disappointment.
Him - I'm fine thanks darlin' ... how are you, ya dirty devil? ;)
What does DD stand for? I thought you would have figured that out straight away! ;-)
Nope, not a clue.
Do my wise words not ring a bell? ;-) You can call me Daniel
Oh. Perhaps I should dye my hair blonde instead, haha.
I hear you right now. It's scary how often our thoughts seem to echo between us.
Have a virtual shag and comb of the hair from me ;o)
Ohh!
That took me right back!
/snog
Ordinarily, no bugger would get near my hair with a comb, but I'll make allowances for you ;)
xx
No, can't stop being a cunt
Hello cuntybitchbird. Miss me?
Course I ain't missed ya, silly cunt... I still read your blog every week ;)
But mwah!! xxx
That warms the cockles mate. xxx